You must decide before you go on the date what your limits will be.
It’s too difficult to think when passion overtakes you. You can resist temptation if you put on the whole armor of God (Eph.
When you don’t know what your boundaries should be or you let them change from day to day, it’s easy to lose a sense of who you are.
We weren’t perfect and didn’t have it all figured out, but I can tell you this: Our wedding night was the first time we saw each other naked, the first time we touched each other in…well, you know…and the first time we slept in the same bed. I don’t have all the answers, but I did learn seven things that really helped me and my husband set physical boundaries while dating. He said, “That’s fine; if you don’t want to do this and such, then we won’t”—and he meant it. If there’s anything that could have protected us a little more from heartbreak, it’s probably a different set of Christian dating boundaries. It’s such a broad subject, and everyone seems to have their own special interpretation of it. ” Sometimes we find ourselves swept away in the possibility of a new relationship, only to find ourselves dropped out the other end of a dump truck.Wait for someone who loves God enough that he’ll put God’s way above his own desires. Because let me tell you: Everything is going to sound good in that moment!Talk about and choose your boundaries ahead of time. When James and I started dating, we began asking God, “How far is too far?